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Remembering Safety Within. From Self-abandonment to Self-mastery.

Remembering Safety Within. From Self-abandonment to Self-mastery.

Oct 10
3 min read

The hypervigilance that comes from unprocessed core wounds surrounding shame, guilt and fear imprints is completely exhausting and makes it very difficult for the body to settle into rest and repair which is necessary for optimal health, happiness and positive relationships.👨‍👩‍👧‍👦


Constant scanning of one's environment and other people's energy may have made us feel safer in childhood temporarily, but it actually makes us less likely to pick up on danger signals and red flags from deceptive or predatory people because it is harder for us to perceive those intuitive gut feelings when we are stuck in fight, flight, freeze or fawn. 😳


When we come back to self-trust in our own ability to discern when we are safe or not and then act accordingly when we sense that we are not, we no longer need a program of hypervigilance running to help us feel safer, because we are attuned to our inner compass that is always guiding us - moment to moment. 🧭


The deepest betrayal is not others betraying us but instead when we abandon ourselves. We can shift this program and heal the heartbreak this pattern has created over and over again. 💔


In all of my clients with chronic health issues, there is this pattern of self-abandonment, over-giving in un-reciprocal and often abusive relationships, poor boundaries and a lack of perceived safety in being one's authentic self, at the root (fear, shame and guilt programming).


I am excited to share that I am facilitating a n in-person Soul Journey for Women around these themes.


GOALS of this Event:


💗Integrate subconscious patterns of self-abandonment

💗Move from self-abandonment to self-mastery

💗Long term nervous system/safety reset

💗Feel healthier and happier

💗Enjoy more authentic & conscious relationships

💗Connect with other women on a path of reclaiming themselves


The intention for this event is not for you to simply have another experience of temporarily regulating your nervous system and then going back to all the same dysfunctional coping patterns in your day to day life afterwards.


My goal is for you to leave with a newfound awareness and a deep transformation of the unconscious parts of you that learned to cope and believed they were more loved, safe and connected to others by freezing, people pleasing, performing, over-giving and self-abandoning. 😔


I will guide the group of women in a journey of deep listening and self-healing with their subconscious as well as the body's organs, glands and deep fascial tissues - which will support the amplification and upgrades in feelings of safety, harmony, peace, self-trust, discernment and unity consciousness within.🌹


I am intending that by starting to shift subconscious imprints around safety that you leave with a new nervous system baseline, which continues to shift as you integrate and repattern your subconscious in the weeks to follow using simple and powerful tools in your day-to-day life.🙏


A more balanced and harmonious nervous system long term allows for greater vagus nerve activity, a lowered cell danger response, and less chronic inflammation = better health and more capacity to enjoy life to the fullest!


Where: Passmore, BC (address provided upon registration)


When: Sunday, October 25th at 10am-1pm


Fee: $111



This event is purposely going to be kept small and intimate in numbers. There are still a few spots left!


If you are not in the West Kootenay region and would be interested in participating in a shorter on-line version of this event please be in touch. I will begin creating a waitlist. ☺️


With love,

Melissa

 
 
 

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